I wish I could have written this post two months ago, back when everything I saw and experienced here seemed so strange and new. Now, in the beginning of March, life in Mexico is the new normal, and I am struggling to think about what the most obvious differences are from my "old life" in Pennsylvania.
Pirámide de el Pueblito, the pyramid in my city |
Street tacos from the barrio right near my house |
Almost every meal is served with tortillas, which can be bought fresh from any number of tortillerias in the neighborhood, and salsa goes well with everything. Believe me, everything. Including pizza, popcorn, and potato chips. I will miss Mexican food immensely when I return to the states, especially now that I realize the "mexican food" we have doesn't come anywhere close to the real deal (burritos and nachos, the hallmarks of "tex-mex" don't hold a candle to gorditas, tortas, or enchiladas).
My own personal visible difference: I can't wear shorts, or clothing that reveals much leg. It's practically an invitation for catcalls, and moreover, most Mexicans wear jeans (regardless of how hot it is!) so wearing shorts would only call attention to the fact that I am a foreigner. This is probably the "visible difference" that bothers me the most, however I am also surprised at how quickly I grew accustomed to it. One day I wore shorts to go to practice with an ultimate frisbee team I joined in the city, and I felt strangely uncomfortable exposing my legs in pubic, especially after only wearing jeans for so many months.
Visiting the waterfall in Xilitla |
The truth is, although I could write a long list of all of the visible differences between Mexico and the United States, I could never encompass everything that entails living here. Being in different country is just that: different, and when you return to your home town, it's hard to put a finger on the little details that made up that other world. It's not just the funny-shaped electrical outlets, or the old cars on the street, or the weather, or even how the people here greet and converse with one another: it's all of those together, as well as a million other factors that you might not even recognize or notice. I won't try to explain the visible differences between Querétaro and Meadville any more: you simply have to come here and experience it for yourself.
It sounds like you are having an amazing time in Mexico! It fascinates me what you wrote about wearing shorts in Mexico. I am experiencing something very similar in Argentina. It is 85 degrees here, but when I wear shorts it makes me stick out like a sore thumb. It enables people to cat call and for the men (who always seem to be at construction sites) to stare at me. It is interesting how in different cultures wearing something like shorts, which we wear all the time in America, allows people to feel that they can treat women like objects. Keep eating amazing Mexican food and learn some recipes to share once you get home!
ReplyDeleteMolly is right you can tell from your blog that you are having a blast over there! Your blog post makes me really want to visit mexico now! I also didn't realize that the shorts would be an issue there, but I understand the sticking out like a sore thumb feeling, here in France everyone wears black, there are almost no colors in people's clothing. It is very common to see both men and women to wear all black outfits. Which is extremely frustrating for me because I own very little black clothing, although I don't get targeted with catcalls, with my bright clothes I'm obliviously a foreigner and can get targeted by money scams and pickpockets.
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