Visible Differences
I
want to preface this blog post by saying that it is a bit difficult
for me to compare life at home in the United States with my life in
France. At home, I live in a very suburban area, while in France I
am very close to the city and downtown. Some things, like food and
clothing/personal expression are easy to compare, but the
transportation here is probably more due to the fact I am not used to
city life.
Food:
French
cuisine is probably one of my favorite aspects of study abroad. From
the actual food to the attitude towards meal times, it is very
different that it is in the United States. Markets are a popular
place to purchase food, with twice weekly markets happening in
Angers. I normally get cheese and produce at the market, but some
people will do all of their shopping for the week there.
Supermarkets do exist in Angers, but it seems like most people prefer
to go to the market or specialty stores to get their food. It takes a
bit longer to have to go to multiple stores, and its a little more
expensive, but I find that the food quality is much better and
fresher than when I get food from the super market. Dinner with my
host family always follows the same tradition. We eat promptly at
seven, starting with soup, then the main course, cheese, and finally
dessert. My host mother is fond of quiches, so we eat a lot of those
as a main course which is a bit different than in the United State
where it seems like you only see quiches at breakfast. The other
thing that stands out to me about dinner in France is that dessert is
a given and something that is eaten every night. I feel like in the
United States, dessert is something you may have on a special
occasion or if you go out to eat at a restaurant, but my host mother
often tells me that it feels strange to end a meal without something
sweet.
Clothing
and personal style:
Storefront of "Promod", a French store |
Appearance
is important in France, even in a smaller city like Angers. People
here do not “dress up” everyday, but you will never see anyone
going to class in sweatpants either. Most people dress similarly to
those in the United States at first glance, but the quality and fit
is generally nicer. It is also odd to see anyone sporting sweatpants
unless they are in the gym. In the United States, I had no problem
going to class in yoga pants and a sweatshirt, but in France I had to
go to multiple clothing stores before I even found a sweatshirt being
sold. Back home, I would wear sweatpants if I was going to take a
quick trip to the grocery store or Starbucks, but here I would not
wear sweatpants to eat dinner with my host family. I find myself
actually thinking about what I will wear versus just getting dressed
and running to class. Before I got here, I may have thought it was
vain, but now that I am here I understand the appeal of putting
thought into an outfit and not just leaving the house in something I
would sleep in. I am not going to lie though, I can't wait until I
can leave the house in ten minutes without getting stared out in
public because I am wearing a sweatshirt.
Transportation:
One of the buses in Angers |
Public
transportation in France is much more widespread and useful than
anything I have experienced in the United States. Where I live in
Pennsylvania is a bit like Meadville where you need a car to get
anywhere. Most things are not within walking distance, and there is
no bus line or subway station. I live in a neighborhood here in
Angers, but there are three bus stops that I can see from my street
alone and I can be downtown in less than ten minutes for a euro. I
will definitely miss the ease of public transportation here, but it
also has a few pitfalls. Most of the buses have limited to no hours
on Sundays and after 9pm, so you have to search for a stop that is
still active or you have to take a taxi. I live off of the main bus
line as well, so I sometimes have to wait an hour between buses, even
if I am only taking the bus for ten minutes. Sometimes it is just
easier to walk, but it is at those times I miss having a car at my
disposal.
It's interesting how much we can take away from the visible differences of our host countries. It is a good way to quickly learn the culture and the necessary changes we may need to make in order to adapt. However, just going by looks alone can often lead to misconceptions. So I appreciate that you have taken the time out to go past first impressions and embrace the differences that your host country has to offer. It can be somewhat intimidating and even a little frightening at times to do this. All the more reason that having an openness of mind is a true virtue, especially in experiences such as yours!
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